.....bla bla bla... and a food forum became a love forum in a flash!

LOL LOL...Human is to error...

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Originally posted by Ngûnjiri®:
.....bla bla bla... and a food forum became a love forum in a flash!

It seems like we are not going to avoid this. But if we do not digress so much, I think drama without an aside would be boring. If we deviate dont hesitate to wield the whip.

yes,if you lose focus you fall in love.That's what i believe.

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Originally posted by Maria:

yes,if you lose focus you fall in love.That's what i believe.

Probably the wrong forum to ask this, but can you elaborate?

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Probably the wrong forum to ask this, but can you elaborate?

it sure is.
Well, firstly, many people never intend to "fall in love" with the people that they eventually do. Right?
At first it is good friendship,say, when and why does it stop being just that? People "develop feelings"? No,i believe that the mind begins to wander at some point and that these people develop ideas totally off the subject that they should be giving their attention to.

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Originally posted by Maria:

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Probably the wrong forum to ask this, but can you elaborate?

it sure is.
Well, firstly, many people never intend to "fall in love" with the people that they eventually do. Right?
At first it is good friendship,say, when and why does it stop being just that? People "develop feelings"? No,i believe that the mind begins to wander at some point and that these people develop ideas totally off the subject that they should be giving their attention to.

So this love is a monster that hides in some dark alleys waiting to ambush those who lose focus?

exactly my point.
why the long face? It is a good thing to unveil this "monster". Now that we have, we should fight him. Think of how happy we would be if we never fell in love...our friendships would go on and on...and on...

Maria,
Does falling in love terminate the friendship?I thot it makes it continue.

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Does falling in love terminate the friendship?

yes it does.

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I thot it makes it continue.

no it doesnt.
When two very good friends give in to this "love", their friendship ends. Havent you seen it happen? Hasnt it happened to you?

Maria,
This is a very interesting dimension. You should expound on this arguments. I like its twist. So when these two pple fall in love, and their friendship ends, what tdo they become? enemies, lovers, spouses?

Sajini; have you ever heard the joke....that marriage is the only time you get to sleep with the enemy? LOL

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Sajini; have you ever heard the joke....that marriage is the only time you get to sleep with the enemy? LOL

hmm what a joke.

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So when these two pple fall in love, and their friendship ends, what tdo they become? enemies, lovers, spouses?

Neither. In a way, everything you seem to "share" separates you even more. And unless you are friends (still), you do not grow, the parties involved. It is something that a person would indulge in as a pass time,if i may call it that, but not for development. When you become selfish and you keep particular matters to yourself, how is that helping you? Of course if it will not help you then it definately will not help your "lover". The way i see it; physically, you'd be together but in truth you are some kind of strangers. The kind that know a little more about themselves.

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Originally posted by Wakanyugî:
Sajini; have you ever heard the joke....that marriage is the only time you get to sleep with the enemy? LOL

Wakanyugi,
No I have not, but I guess this is a creed of from radical feminists who see every male as a devil in disguise.

Luckily, today, you do not have to sleep in teh same bed. It is becoming fashionable for spouses to have separate bedrooms to give each other a peace of mind, for instance if one wets the bed, or snores, or is too troublesome at night