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Originally posted by Nyina Wa Bakhita:
Irio ikirehwo.Nii ndiarumire.Ciana ikirega.Bakhita oragia,who eats cactus and the corn husks? .That was pretty scary.But some of their food is good.

LOL
Bakhita is my kind of girl. Sometimes whne I look at Mexican food, I fell like throwing up, but I do like the color of their rive. At least it is better than Chinese.

To me most of it takes good.MAybe my great grand pa was a mexican

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Originally posted by sajini:

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Originally posted by Nyina Wa Bakhita:
Irio ikirehwo.Nii ndiarumire.Ciana ikirega.Bakhita oragia,who eats cactus and the corn husks? .That was pretty scary.But some of their food is good.

LOL
Bakhita is my kind of girl. Sometimes whne I look at Mexican food, I fell like throwing up, but I do like the color of their rive. At least it is better than Chinese.

I like Salsa.I think its Kasumbari sauced. If you can say that.

Jane, send me your pic and I will let you know if your great gran was LOOOOOOL

Mbica nicio icio wa B.No ukiremwo ni gucirora.

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Originally posted by jane:
Mbica nicio icio wa B.No ukiremwo ni gucirora.

Jane,Ndina Kiuria.Do you think they will mind having older women?He he he he he he.Ahiki ndî nao.

No njuge those good looking dudes matiumite mehico maumite kûrîa gwitû Ndia.

Older women and young boys.Mmm Good question.Angikorwo ahiki mena tubeca ngwiciria ti horu muno hau.Niwamenya tumwana tutu nitukumatirithia ukuru.

Ona angikorwo matiri na tubeca ri,na nimendana ri,kai ingirega nii?Mundu ni mugima eke uria ekwenda.Kana atia wa nii?Lol

I am thinking of situations where money does not come into account. Though sometimes someone might get hooked out with an older person for marterial gains, only to later learn that they sincerely like that person.

My belief: Love does not have to be the indredient of marriage. It can also be an outcome of marriage.

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Originally posted by sajini:
I am thinking of situations where money does not come into account. Though sometimes someone might get hooked out with an older person for marterial gains, only to later learn that they sincerely like that person.

My belief: Love does not have to be the indredient of marriage. It can also be an outcome of marriage.

This is Alarming.I mean the money issue.Reminds me of this song.....

Thiku ici kairitu karia kega,
karagirio ni mundu uria uri ooo na mbia.
Mwanake okorwo nduri onateni,;;;;something something.

Mbeca mbeca mwanake,no citume wicirie umwo ni Ngoma.

Nyina wa B
eke ngurikirie kibungo kiu.

Thiku ici kairitu kria kega
karagirio ni mundu uri uri na mbia
mwanake okorwo nduri ona teni
withue mutwe wanoga uthi ugakome
toga kunoga ukiuga "I love you"
Wihe uhoro wanoga uthi kuria uguthii

mbeca, mbeca mwanake
no citume wicirie umwo ni ngoma.

How would you know if it was genuine love or not?

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Originally posted by sajini:
My belief: Love does not have to be the indredient of marriage. It can also be an outcome of marriage.

You really believe in this Sajini,dont you.

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Originally posted by sajini:
I am thinking of situations where money does not come into account. Though sometimes someone might get hooked out with an older person for marterial gains, only to later learn that they sincerely like that person.

My belief: Love does not have to be the indredient of marriage. It can also be an outcome of marriage.

Sajini; in the case where its not the ingredient;what would have brought the couple togther? PESA...or is there another alternative?

Maria, Wakanyugi
It is not as absurd as you think. Think of all the arranged marriages which have stood the test of time. The two peopel were brought together by nothing more than social conformity. As they engage in their life's path, they find that they have so much in common and become so devoted to each other and live happily ever after.

Social psychologists have shown that all that is needed to enhance group solidarity is to make people perceive themselves as a group. As they start doing their things together, the mutual bond increases, and they become inseparable.

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Social psychologists have shown that all that is needed to enhance group solidarity is to make people perceive themselves as a group. As they start doing their things together, the mutual bond increases, and they become inseparable.

just like we have become here @kikuyu.com

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As they engage in their life's path, they find that they have so much in common and become so devoted to each other and live happily ever after.

True. Somehow feelings develop and grow. You know what is strange; even when you keep other factors constant, the heart will still grow fonder of this "individual".
..thats when you fall in love...But surely,if one is focused,one can prevent this love.

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...But surely,if one is focused,one can prevent this love.

Maria do you mean unfocused people are the ones who love/fall in love?
Another thing...I doubt you can prevent loving/being in love with somebody....the best you could do is be in self denial ....like some people I know....