Ngima,
Asante kweli we need advisors hii safari ni ndefu, lakini pia nafikiria sisi makapera tukakaa chumba kimoja si we might just get the one from there? jus a thought.

Kanyutu,
Ati 8-10 yrs? Kwani umri wako ni ngapi? Pathetic Swahili lakini najikakamua

Wagatere,
Nie nima ingikwira miaka yakwa nuurire.Nie ndimukuru ta kirikaniro! Nondimakaga.It's only that i have other interests in life that i must finish before i settle for this family/marriage manenos.
And by the way,10 years is such a short time,just wait and see.

kanyutu wa igoti, ma yaú ndúngítobora......unless you are 20, or below that!!
kana hihi ugikorwo wina karedi ga kado (just kidding)

Wa kihia,

Ati woiga ningitobora? Nie ndiyaga muthua na nguya,kuogwo ona unginyona nowichirie ndina miaka twendi kindu.
Turendi twa thiku ici are too difficult to handle.The problem is that you date them,then the next day they want to get married to you. At least that is the type i have been so unlucky to have.
While i have nothing against those who want to settle in marriage, i have always held the view that this should not be hurried.Besides, i wonder whether anyone would want to settle down with someone whose time is 60% travel(Dont mistake for a long distance truck driver),35% glued in office,4% pursuing liquor,and the rest for this family manenos.
I have lots of respect for those who have successfully settled down with their families.

Hope you are one of them

kanyutu,
What will happen when the travels cease, and the golden handshake comes, and then you loose interest in booze? I think it has to do with sacrifice. We cannot have all we want in this world.

sajini
hapo umenena,huko kujipanga kwingi hakuna mchango mwingi katika ndoa,ni vizuri kuchukua mda na si vizuri kuchelewa sana.
ni vizuri kulea watoto wako ukiwa na umli wa kati ili wakuwe ukiwa bando hujazeeka ili uwe na wakati mzuri nawanao.

Kanyutu na wengine,

Kila kitu kiko na wakati wake na wakati wako kumpata mchumba ukiwadia, hakuna jambo lolote litakalozuia. Ningependa kuongezea kwa hoja hio yako ya samaki niseme ingawa wako wengi baharini, ni jambo mwafaka ukitahathari unapowatega kwani wengine wako na sumu inayoweza kukudhuru. Samaki wengine pia hawaliki.

Pia mimi ningependelea kuwahimiza hao ambao wako bado kwa ukapera wasijitenge, tushiriakiane nao na tuwape ushauri vile haya maisha ya upande huu mwingine yako, ubora wake na pia madhara yake.

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Turendi twa thiku ici are too difficult to handle.The problem is that you date them,then the next day they want to get married to you. At least that is the type i have been so unlucky to have.

i didnt know men had such problems. Oh sorry,Kanyuta, but i cant help laughing.

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i wonder whether anyone would want to settle down with someone whose time is 60% travel(Dont mistake for a long distance truck driver),

why cant you be?

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4% pursuing liquor

hey you guys, is there a Kenyan who doesnt drink?
If you are old enough,get married.I think one day,when your 50,you will find yourself in a bar surrounded by 25 year olds. now that is not healthy.
Me,I dont feel marriage because a man is going to be well, a man. And i dont think I can live with a man. is marriage the only thing one has to live with in life till death?
I thought that when you retire or lose your job you gain more interest in booze.

Maria
I had thought that only Black me had insecurities when it came to assertive women. I have seen that hata Wazungu fear girls who as so strong, though their public displays give the implication that they like strong women. Men like to be in cotrol, and that is whey the find these girls difficult to handle.

All Kenyan do not booze. And by the way, why do Uganda boozers drink beer with straws?

hahaha straws?? now i dunno. i dont drink. never been to club or bars...

Wagithuri, maoni hayo yako ni ye kweli kabisa.Ndio maana nashughulika hivi. Yule ndugu,wa igoti naweza nikaweka 'bet' na yeye kuwa hatangoja miaka kumi.huenda akapata mwaka ujao.
Eti mwasema tukuwe na kurasa yetu sisi makapera? aaah,mimi nasema tukae papa hapa sisi wote.Ngima,Ngunjiri na Wagithuri watupe mawaidha ya ndoa na familia.

Kariuki.
huu sio wakati wakutengana, mbali nitusaindiane kimawaidha,waigoti nanjua hakosi mpango,kwa hivyo si ajabu usikie ako fungate,

Hamjamboni Nyote,
Naona ya kwamba munanitakia mema.Shukrani. Vile wagithuri alivyosema ni kweli.Ni vyema lakini kujitahadharisha,na kutokimbiria mambo ingawa inalingana na mtu binafsi.

Ni matarajio yangu kwamba wale wanaogemea upande huo wa ndoa waendelee tu,labda tutakutania pahali.

House!

Makapera wote ...please stand up LOL

Sajini, its not only Ugandans who drink beer with a straw, even Nigerians.
And is South Africa some guys share 1 beer with straws too.....quite the odd thing if you as me.

beer na straw . may be its coz of the quantity. I hear in UG and S.A beer comes in bottles of one litre so by the time u get halfway it might be flat. so u share with ur buddies and use straw .
i once tried it here but the tusker tasted so different until i threw away the straw and asked for a glass.
In the US(according to what i see in the movies) guys like drinking from the bootle.it looks so cool.but then again their bottles are smaller more like those Heineken or white cup light, tusker malt but i dont see guys drinking from the bottle around here.....