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I think beating our women is not a good thing. The best would be to leave the relationship if it has to get to the level of violence and get someone else | |||
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| "Nyina wa Hazel" Gold Member  |
Funny enough research shows that the men/boys who beat up their women .....they themselves have grown up in such environs and detested the habit. However they find themlseves doing the same...hence it becomes one vicoius cycle. Why is this so...if I hate something so much why should I do it...yet I know how much agony it caused me? Can somebody shed some light on this. | |||
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| "Mom" Silver Member  |
the mind is made up of 3 faculties the concious, sub concious and the unconcious. the unconcious stores past experiences(recycle bin), it controls human action, the only way to get rid of painful past thats catching up with you, is by practising the opp of it, and uncounciously, you will store good things in the unconcious part of your mind. , concious faculty is about todays happening, and the sub, has the recent past. The farthest past has the greatest influence on us.(oedipus complex) Oedipus was told by the oracle that he would kill his father and marry his mother, he was young then, it happened without his knowledge. "ad rather have bad times with you, than good times with somoene else.(dedication to ma boys makwa..3 of them..) | |||
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| Silver Member |
Ngai ! ati oedipus complex ... ni kaba kegi | |||
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| "Mom" Silver Member |
its true, this oedipus jamaa was adopted by some royal parents but he thought were his real parents, as he was running away from the oracle, he met his father in a chariot, he didnt know his real dad, they were involvd in a confrontation, he killed him, he ran very fast and found a proverb in his fathers land, the deal was, if you solve the proverb, you will marry the queen now that the king is dead, he solve it and married the queen, got two daughters with her, swali ni, were these daughters his sisters or his daughters? he finally commited suicide after learning the bitter truth.. what he really hated-killing his father and marrying his mother cought up with him. Now keggi iguguteithia atia to run from some realities? "ad rather have bad times with you, than good times with somoene else.(dedication to ma boys makwa..3 of them..) | |||
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| "Mom" Silver Member |
this story is a teaching, dont run away, just fight on and vitu zingine zitaenda. i dont remember the story well its a long time since i was in school, wakihia can help.
"ad rather have bad times with you, than good times with somoene else.(dedication to ma boys makwa..3 of them..) | |||
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