Its my hope and prayer that no lady of this Nyumba is going thru this.Its also my hope and prayer that the gentlemen of Nyumba do not fall in this category.

For all you ladies,God forbid that it ever happened to you,keep a journal of the abuses,emotional or physical.Write the time,what tv program was on,where the kids were if any.

Tell someone.Your family,your boss,and if please go see your doctor.All this will be effective witness if this went to court.And for you bosses out there,if you notice that your juniors are not acting the usual selves,write it on your schedule book.Write of bruises if you notice on their faces.

You never know when all this could come in handy cause like it or not,there are wicked people out there. I wonder if the mistress is happy now or the killer husband for that matter.

Isn't it sad that a woman will sit back and allow a man to kill his wife so what,that he can marry her?Is that sick or what?Shame on the mistress .She should go in for conspiracy.
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NEWS

When court quashed the alibi of a wife killer

Story by MARK AGUTU
Publication Date: 2007/07/07

An alibi, the defence to a criminal charge in which a suspect alleges that he or she was not at the place at which a crime was committed, is among those that people lean on to escape conviction.

It also happens to be one of the defence walls fictional super sleuth Sherlock Holmes loved to crack in the course of investigating complex murder cases.

Known for his intellectual prowess and masterful use of deductive reasoning, Holmes would unravel the most convoluted of murder cases, leaving culprits cringing in shame and security agents baffled.

It, however, did not require Holmes’s fictional finesse for police officers and the High Court to see through an alibi conjured by convicted wife-killer Philip Njuguna Muinde in a murder trial concluded in Nairobi. Muinde attempted to evade the long arm of the law after strangling his wife in a bizarre love triangle case nearly four years ago.

While denying responsibility, Muinde claimed he had been in Lokichoggio for six months and had not returned by the night of November 23, 2003 when his wife, Jane Wanjiku Mwangi, was found dead at Njathaini Village in Kasarani, Nairobi.

Muinde told the court that on October 2, 2003, he had been approached by a friend, Mr John Odhiambo, who wanted Muinde to join him for “a contract” in Lokichoggio.

They agreed to partner in the project and proceeded to Lokichogio on October 10, 2003. After working for six months, they were paid their money and he returned home to Njathaini Village. He claimed that while taking care of his father, he was arrested and taken to Kasarani Police Station and charged with killing his wife.

However, as it turned out, his alibi was not sufficient to throw the investigators and the High Court off his scent as justice took its course.

After three years of trial in which the State presented five key witnesses, judge Muga Apondi found that Muinde had indeed killed his wife in a sad twist of a domestic row.

Received evidence

What poked holes in the alibi Muinde attempted to weave? The court pointed to the evidence tabled by five key witness brought by the prosecution. Their evidence complemented each other and placed Muinde squarely in Nairobi on the material day.

They included a local chief, who had intervened in an earlier row between the couple, the landlady, whose house they had rented two months before the murder, and a driver who had helped them shift to the new house.

The court also received evidence from the employer of Muinde’s girlfriend who had on several occasions received reports of her employee’s run-ins with Muinde’s wife prior to the death.

And, finally, a chief inspector at Njathaini police post, where reports of violence had been made, also gave his evidence.

Apparently Muinde had interacted with each of them hardly two months before the incident, especially during his frequent wife beating sessions.

Significantly, the court observed that none of the witnesses had a grudge against Muinde to motivate them to give false evidence against him. However, their evidence gave the court a clear view of Muinde’s abusive ways which, as it turned out, were fuelled by his extra-marital affair.

Trashing the Lokichoggio alibi, the judge said Muinde’s claims that he had been away had not been backed by any solid evidence.

“Assuming for a second that the accused had gone to Lokichoggio, he should have been in constant touch with his wife. This is normal with any ordinary couples.

“And immediately he noticed that there was a breakdown of communication, he should have alerted either his relatives or authorities. Specifically he should have complained to his in-laws first.”

Declared the judge: “I hereby reject the defence case that has no merit at all and having considered the evidence in its entirety, I do concur with the unanimous findings of all the three assessors.

“In conclusion, I hereby find that the accused is guilty of murder and is hereby convicted accordingly.”

Mobile phone

In his evidence, Police Inspector Musyoka Mulwa, then in charge of Njathaini Police Station, recalled that on November 29, 2003 while on duty at around 11.30, a woman — Muinde’s landlady — rang him through his mobile phone.

She complained that one of her tenant’s rooms at Njathaini trading centre was emitting an awful smell. In response, he called another officer and they proceeded to the premises.

They found the door locked from the outside with a padlock and decided to break it down. On entering the house, they found Jane’s decomposing body lying on the bed.

The police officer recalled that earlier in the month, Jane had reported that she had been assaulted by Muinde, her husband.

Wa B,

I like your advocacy about women whatever. So, what is your advice towards men who are abused by their wives?? Do they also chronicle the events in a diary or something.Husband battery is on the rise and the sooner the issue is dealt the better for this society. In my opinion, the following would amount to husband battery:

1. Physical assault. The fish and chips joints are to blame for this. Women are now physically bigger than their male counterparts. The size factor matters.

2. Excessive noise in the house. I am told some women can yap for hours

3.Denial of conjugal rights on flimsy grounds such as non-existent headache. It is never a stomach ache or any other malady
4. Nagging can make a husband go bonkers
5. Refusal to hand over the remote during popular footbal matches

And many more! so what do we do??

4.

Yes Paka, the first two are now very common

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And many more! so what do we do??

So beating up women will solve all those probs u have stated up there????? Shadaff!!! There has never been an excuse to hit a lady;if u cant stand her ways no more hit the highway! Who has held ur legs?? shadauuu!!!!!
Men who beat up ladies is because they can't measure up with their fellow men out there hence they go for a weakling who they know for sure they will beat-literally!

Shame on all the men out there who hit ladies..washindwe kabisa! Mundu arogeria kungutha nie kana ona arote ati no anguthe...eke ndigire hau.

This message has been edited. Last edited by: Wakanyugî,

hiyo ni kweli.yap yap ni dawa kwa mama..if women dont talk it out, theyl be stressed to hell. kunyimwa hizo vitu..hulingana na vile umeitisha, women wako na key rahisi sana..penda them, call them atleast three times in a day, write an sms just to say you love them...etc, etc.. and all is going to be good for you.

Mimi nilisha jua hiyo siri..it works

No excuse what so ever to beat up women.

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call them atleast three times in a day, write an sms just to say you love them...etc, etc

eish, won't that lead to boredom. i think it becomes monotonous when you keep on calling her like three times in a day followed by text messages. the message will be the same and it will definately become boring!I think scarcity makes something precious.
i think, if you see each other off in the morning and spend the whole day bila any communication, when jioni comes you will both be dying to see each other and you will have a lot to talk about. What would a couple talk about in the evening when they have spent a whole day sending each other some texts and calling each other three times?

Wa Kihia nikio ugatura uroteirwo we! Sema hauna lyrics usaidiwe na Mwendwa wacha excuse ati itakuwa boring...shadau.

wakanyugi tatua mata mau. ati ngutura ndoteirwo?

he he he ha rúrímí mwendwa ndingimwonera namba. nii ndi múru ngarema

nikii wee, niukwenda tushindane? nani referee?

amba umuigwithie aingire nyumba gwaku, acenjie ritwa etwo mrs..you na athame kwao atue ni wanyu..ti hahuthu uguo ureciria muthee... harafu uke twambiririe gushindana..

its getting interesting!!!

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Originally posted by kariúki wa kíhia:
wakanyugi tatua mata mau. ati ngutura ndoteirwo?

he he he ha rúrímí mwendwa ndingimwonera namba. nii ndi múru ngarema

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nani referee?

Ni nderutira kuruta uyu...haya andu nimaingire kiharo!

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nikii wee, niukwenda tushindane? nani referee?

amba umuigwithie aingire nyumba gwaku, acenjie ritwa etwo mrs..you na athame kwao atue ni wanyu..ti hahuthu uguo ureciria muthee... harafu uke twambiririe gushindana..

its getting interesting!!!

wewe!! ndimuiguithie kana ni ithe ngamba gutwarira mburi? tiga ni kahiu kanjohete hanini ngaga cia mburi ndirakwira angiri gwakwa. Ndathiite kuhura riboti ngitio mburi nyingi ni ithe tondu augire ucio ni wa goro- na nima niwagoro tondu nii ndingithura namba ya kawainda.riu ngikienderio goro muno, no ndingitiga tondu ucio ni worth every cent ndetagio. riu ndirakwira thukumite muno na ngakoni andu niguo cigane cia mburi.

nii njugire tucindane cia rúrímí wone ngikuruma nja nayu nayu. reke tuthure neutral ground tung'ang'ane twone. Na tondu wakanyusi augaga ndari munduz ri, tutikigerie nake twone nuu ugutobora? niguo? uria ugutobora agurirwo kegi, nima?

Mwendwa ninjoii wi mundu wa kuga na guika......ndukareke Wa Kihia aukuingirie heho.....ndi gutu....

Mundu endaga akoya na hire purchase..

uhoro wa kegi, kai akurinu makundaga kanyamu wee? nonga gacuru kana karia.

wikuo muno, mundu wakiona first installment ri, ukinjire niguo ngagiteithirie ha burgain kana?

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Originally posted by kariúki wa kíhia:

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nikii wee, niukwenda tushindane? nani referee?

amba umuigwithie aingire nyumba gwaku, acenjie ritwa etwo mrs..you na athame kwao atue ni wanyu..ti hahuthu uguo ureciria muthee... harafu uke twambiririe gushindana..

its getting interesting!!!

wewe!! ndimuiguithie kana ni ithe ngamba gutwarira mburi? tiga ni kahiu kanjohete hanini ngaga cia mburi ndirakwira angiri gwakwa. Ndathiite kuhura riboti ngitio mburi nyingi ni ithe tondu augire ucio ni wa goro- na nima niwagoro tondu nii ndingithura namba ya kawainda.riu ngikienderio goro muno, no ndingitiga tondu ucio ni worth every cent ndetagio. riu ndirakwira thukumite muno na ngakoni andu niguo cigane cia mburi.

nii njugire tucindane cia rúrímí wone ngikuruma nja nayu nayu. reke tuthure neutral ground tung'ang'ane twone. Na tondu wakanyusi augaga ndari munduz ri, tutikigerie nake twone nuu ugutobora? niguo? uria ugutobora agurirwo kegi, nima?

atiriri we, niukwenda mundu oriu twambie kurota?

lakini violence iishe!

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Originally posted by Wakanyugî:
Mwendwa ninjoii wi mundu wa kuga na guika......ndukareke Wa Kihia aukuingirie heho.....ndi gutu....

wakanyusi, u hali gani zeze? nakupenda zeze