As i watched a nyexican sopap opera unfold in Nyeri on NTV last night...for those who didnt watch,a husband busted his wife who had been cheating on him with another man from the neighbourhood.He found them in the mans house,proceeded to lock the dooor and brought in reinforcements ala his brother and the assistant chief.When the guy opened the door he was given the proverbial kichapo cha mbwa.....i couldnt help wonder what drove the wife of twenty five years with children as old as eighteen year old son.I dont support her but i couldnt help think"what if what she was getting is something she has never felt tangu she got married? what if the husband is an underperformer or cheating on her as well?" what are your thoughts?

Jambo,

I saw the same news item and my thoughts ranged from 1) Why was the aggrieved Husband beating the Village Bull, he was just simply fulfilling his assigned task to 2) Maybe the Husband cannot perform to 3) The Wife was looking for thrills and finally 4) It could be a set up the News Crew was all set up and ready to shoot the episode.

All the same, this incident is just an indication of what is happening to our social values. i can assure you that the matter is more prevelant than we may think.

wa Mathira

Mbugua....always know that quantity can never be eaqual to quality. The said couple have been married for 25yrs but clearly the husband hasnt been satisfying her....so she got needs and they have to be met
Wa Mathira ur right I also thot it was stage managed infact I didn't give it much thot when I saw it in the 7pm news....how come the camera crew was there from the word go?

I do not know who to blame. 1) I don't know the age difference btwn the couple. 2)The husband may be a non performer. 3) The wife may be simply immoral. 4)The husband may be non supportive and boring which may have led the spouse to look for excitement,satisfaction of her ego and probably monetary gain. But all the same iisshhiinnddwwee!!!

wakanys and wamathira,i disagree,it couldnt have been staged managed,i guess somebody tipped the media and for the guy to scream like that and to bleed...itagwo mbara ya mwiri

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Originally posted by Wakanyugî:
Mbugua....always know that quantity can never be eaqual to quality. The said couple have been married for 25yrs but clearly the husband hasnt been satisfying her....so she got needs and they have to be met
Wa Mathira ur right I also thot it was stage managed infact I didn't give it much thot when I saw it in the 7pm news....how come the camera crew was there from the word go?

ni muraririkana gathee kau gakiuga"musinifige tena,yenyewe makosa imetokea"

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Originally posted by Mbugua wa Wambui:
wakanys and wamathira,i disagree,it couldnt have been staged managed,i guess somebody tipped the media and for the guy to scream like that and to bleed...itagwo mbara ya mwiri

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Originally posted by Wakanyugî:
Mbugua....always know that quantity can never be eaqual to quality. The said couple have been married for 25yrs but clearly the husband hasnt been satisfying her....so she got needs and they have to be met
Wa Mathira ur right I also thot it was stage managed infact I didn't give it much thot when I saw it in the 7pm news....how come the camera crew was there from the word go?

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ni muraririkana gathee kau gakiuga"musinifige tena,yenyewe makosa imetokea"

Wa Kihia rehe mwaki naiyo naiyo tucinirire gathee thung'wa iraka na haaria Kiawara. Wacemania na Wakanyus mwire atokore ho twi wira

Good people,

I never watched news last night,but am perplexed by the reactions here. Not everybody cheat because he/she is disatisfied by their husband/wife performance in bed. A good number of them do it for the fun of it. Others get the "kick" from the risk involved much the same way some super rich celebrities will shoplift a gum worth cents.My views are that never codemn these people because you might not be innocent.It might be that luck is on your side, at least for now!!

But honestly, why would anyone resort to violence in such matters?? Personally i would let the bastard keep the wife;they are too many others outside there afterall.

na hiyo, ni maendeleo!!

sana sana its not about who satisfies the other, its just curiosity!! some people feel theyv had too much of one thing and thy'd like to try another..

No good reason to cheat on your spouse!! divorce them before you pick on the next! though God hates divorce(abit spiritual) this vices must end!! there is so much you can do to improve your spouses' performace if you really love them. we all want to be fantastic! and we all think we are.. if we arnt gonna stop..Hiv/Aids, other STIS, orphans, broken homes etc shall not stop from knocking our doorss..

think about it..

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But honestly, why would anyone resort to violence in such matters?? Personally i would let the bastard keep the wife;they are too many others outside there afterall.

PA...Sayin is one thing and doing is another. i'll give u the benefit of the doubt but have u been in such a situation like this before to know thats what u would do? Me thinks not...considering u will have invested in ur wife both materially and emotionally its only normal to result to violence to release pelt up anger. Personally I will not rule out the fact that I am capable of doing something close to that if not crazier -25 years of my life isnt a joke!! I cant let 25 years go down to waste like that without a fight so I undertand the mzee.
So what am I saying? PA never say never am sure it wasn't the couples wish to be busted on tele in such circumstances.
Huwesi jua vile uta react "makosa" kama hiyo ikitokea! hehehehe

onanii ingirambire kuhura kanda iyo nyahunyu nyingi nginya injite mami ,yaikarathi ikandirikanaga,then i frog march them na mutumia to my house mutumia akue kiria kimukonii magithii okuria magathii!

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Originally posted by mwendwa:
na hiyo, ni maendeleo!!

sana sana its not about who satisfies the other, its just curiosity!! some people feel theyv had too much of one thing and thy'd like to try another..
..

Talking as if you come from Ingokholand where they say "Afatsaliko ameletako kamusichana wakati huu apatilisheko pokha"

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Originally posted by Wakanyugî:
[QUOTE]But honestly, why would anyone resort to violence in such matters?? Personally i would let the bastard keep the wife;they are too many others outside there afterall.

PA...Sayin is one thing and doing is another. i'll give u the benefit of the doubt but have u been in such a situation like this before to know thats what u would do?

Trust me . I would let the bugger keep her. Some things are not worth fighting for.

Me thinks not...considering u will have invested in ur wife both materially and emotionally its only normal to result to violence to release pelt up anger.

I lose you here. I thought you are an ardent crusader against violence in marriage.Honestly i dont think violence or threat of it will stop two philandering adults from pursuing their amorous appetites

Personally I will not rule out the fact that I am capable of doing something close to that if not crazier

He he he, what worse would you have done. Suppose you went ahead and you were beaten by the offending cheating couples. Imagine uhuritwo na niwe uguthiaga kurua
-25 years of my life isnt a joke!! I cant let 25 years go down to waste like that without a fight so I undertand the mzee.
So what am I saying?


[B]Wakanyusi , let me ask you a theoretical question. Suppose (God forbid!) you were the woman in the picture and your husband found out. Would you like it if he bashed/battered you??

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But honestly, why would anyone resort to violence in such matters?? Personally i would let the bastard keep the wife;they are too many others outside there afterall.

he did that. He kicked the syupid wife out of his life there and then.
I dont think he was fighting for his wife. He was beating up the fyool.you would probably have done the same.A man cant have it with your wife and let him walk off to the village shopping centre, if you catch him(red handed like it happened) then beat up the fyool mercilessly.why and how can he let himself get caught??

The wife may have the excuses that made her sneak into that 'village bull's' house and get sexual satisfaction but she didnt have a reason to do so.if the man was not satisfying her,then why dint she seperate from him? do you guys picture a scenario where the so called 'village bull' had some STDs and the poor hubby wants to do it with the wifie without protection coz he trusts the wife? Why dint the women beat up the wife too?

Just like Paka says, the vice, habit of cheating spouses is rampant its only that NTV happened to witness one. walk along near car parks in town when its rainingand you will be shocked.Andu marathecanira mbini ngari-ini.ask the receptionist of our stingy lodgings and you will be shocked.

PS. no gathee kau kene mama karari gathiru biu.nguiciria nikio mama araugire acere. no kai nake niaragithiite kiroko i....

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Originally posted by kariúki wa kíhia:
walk along near car parks in town when its rainingand you will be shocked.Andu marathecanira mbini ngari-ini.ask the receptionist of our stingy lodgings and you will be shocked. [QUOTE]


PS. no gathee kau kene mama karari gathiru biu.nguiciria nikio mama araugire acere. no kai nake niaragithiite kiroko i....

ni kungata bevo