I NEED HELP..kairitu karata gakwa karenda KUHIKA.thina riu ucuwe ararehe thina tondo aroiga ati uthoni utaruo gwake tondu nyina kairitu ti muhiku na ndari ahika.na aikaraga kwa nyina nyumba.tondu maigiite biashara na nyina haria rongai...kwaga uguo nyina egure niguo muthenya wa uthoni nyina akaria, kana arie indo..kairitu gaka gagwika atia. karenda kuruga ucuwe tondu ni tucuru turia twendete mbeca muno na kuga uria guguthie..ni jira ya ugikuyu iyo kana ni thiaya ya gacucu kau

to some extent gacucu kau ke right .ndanaigua gugithii uguo uhoro wa mundu kwigura. ira murata waku agaikie kanyamu kanini gakire.

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Originally posted by koi:
I NEED HELP..kairitu karata gakwa karenda KUHIKA.thina riu ucuwe ararehe thina tondo aroiga ati uthoni utaruo gwake tondu nyina kairitu ti muhiku na ndari ahika.na aikaraga kwa nyina nyumba.tondu maigiite biashara na nyina haria rongai...kwaga uguo nyina egure niguo muthenya wa uthoni nyina akaria, kana arie indo..kairitu gaka gagwika atia. karenda kuruga ucuwe tondu ni tucuru turia twendete mbeca muno na kuga uria guguthie..ni jira ya ugikuyu iyo kana ni thiaya ya gacucu kau

Kui,
we we we, ira kairitu kau karata gaku wakorwo ni agikuyu karing'a mathikiririe uguo ucuwe arauga. wakorwo ni marenda gugekira uthoni kwa nyina, no kinya o uguo ucuwe aroiga nyina egure.
Ugikuyu-ini ri, muthuri ndangiariire mburi imwe uguo ya ruracio we mwenyewe ataracitie.

Nake muiritu (ndimwite uguo) angiakinyire kwendia mwari na we ti muhiku, ni kinya angiathire kuri nyina egure nigetha ahote kwamukira mburi cia mwari.

Uri gutu?

No ni hari njira ingi.

Handu ha gutwara mburi kwa nyina, no citwaruo kwa cuwe. Nigetha nyina ndakahutie ona koori.

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Originally posted by wamax:
No ni hari njira ingi.

Handu ha gutwara mburi kwa nyina, no citwaruo kwa cuwe. Nigetha nyina ndakahutie ona koori.

Wamax,
ii na niguo ngwiciria cuwe arauga akiuga uthoni ugatwarwo gwake. na ari na kihoto kuringana na ugikuyu

no riu ni hindi ya "Power Sharing".. gutiri Mugikuyu kana Mera, Gutiri cucu kana mami .. ithi oothe turi andu a Kenya kana Citizens of Kenya.

Nguga magayane mburi 50 - 50 literally .. as in .. ithinjwo ciothe icoke itemerwo gatagati ciume icunji igiri igiri. Kimwe gikorwo kia nyina na kiria kingi kiheo cuwe...

na mugitwirire kuria gukaracirio na muthenya wa igongona .. .... Wakihia niagoka na kabuti gake gagucina nyama nanie ningoka na makara

This message has been edited. Last edited by: jm,

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Originally posted by jm:
no riu ni hindi ya "Power Sharing".. gutiri Mugikuyu kana Mera, Gutiri cucu kana mami .. ithi oothe turi andu a Kenya kana Citizens of Kenya.

Nguga magayane mburi 50 - 50 literally .. as in .. ithinjwo ciothe icoke itemerwo gatagati ciume icunji igiri igiri. Kimwe gikorwo kia nyina na kiria kingi kiheo cuwe...

na mugitwirire kuria gukaracirio na muthenya wa igongona .. .... Wakihia niagoka na kabuti gake gagucina nyama nanie ningoka na makara

jm,
niwe wee! ndinakuorota, ni kaara keheta! Gitoi kiraragia kiui njira.

In my perspective, I think uthoni these days have been so much commercialised that the parents( or grandparents) of the bride are demanding too much bride price.

If I were asked I would do away with it completely. All I would advice the parents is to Bless their children as they leave their(parents) homes to get married.The only thing I would tell them is that once they stand on their feet and are in a position to give their parents something as a way of saying THANK YOU then then are more than welcome to do so.

koi,
nguiciria cucu is right kwira mami wa muiritu egure,na tondu wauga ni gacucu kendette mbeca muno rii,ira mami wa muiritu ethe atumia arata ake aria mathiaga kamweretho mathii nake akeegure,na cucu wao akirathime nyina wa muiritu na muiritu.na tondu kuiragwo mundu akuagwo uria ahana rii,niwega kuigurira kirathimo.ine!.....p.s ona atumia aria ahiku athuri ao mangirega kuracia nimeracagiria.My two cents.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by jane:
jane kairitu ka maitu uri mwega muno...nii ni detikania nawe muno , tondu njuragia mburi icio ni ciaki, mbari ya mwanake ibaitrio tu ni gocokeria mbari ya muiritu ngatho na undu wa gocokia guoko..tondu ma thiku ici ni ta harambee.

thengio muno mbugua ...advise yaku ni jega muno.

nyumba no nginya yuke uthoni ucio, no njohi ikanyuo na mbuthu iria ciari cia tene, uchuru wa mukio naguo tuihuri. turenda supplier wa muratima mitungi igana rimwe. tender iri kuo. hihi ngunjiri no atuethere tuihuri..tamujuririe kana no oe order

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Originally posted by koi:
nyumba no nginya yuke uthoni ucio, no njohi ikanyuo na mbuthu iria ciari cia tene, uchuru wa mukio naguo tuihuri. turenda supplier wa muratima mitungi igana rimwe. tender iri kuo. hihi ngunjiri no atuethere tuihuri..tamujuririe kana no oe order

tuite nitugoka ucio uthoni. ni wa ri?

Uria ndirona haha ri, ni ati murenda gugeka uthoni uyu gigikuyu, uguo no kinya macio mangi mumeke oro uguo. ira kairitu kere nyina atware kanyamu kwa nyina muthenya ucio utanakinya. matikanende kumenya uria kungithii angiaga guika uguo. ni kaba kurathimwo tondu ona gikuyu oigire kirumi kia mundu wi muoyo gikirite kia uria mukuu.

Otoguo achio me mbere mauga wari mugiro mundu angi oire kana kamukira ruracio atarachitie. Nima thiku ichi niturenda muno mbeca na nguichiria ati koruo no tuchokerere ng'ombe,ng'ondu na miati no kwagagagire. Nao aciari aitu metikire kwaga gukoroka na ni kuri aingi muno ona mateithagia ciana ciao,koguo tutika huthire eri kana atatu oru gute kiria twinakio! Tutigate mitugo na unduire witu, kiu no kio kiria gitigaire kuri mugikuyu karing'a.Ona thweri ni cia ugire "Mwacha mila ni mtumwa"

tuona uguo nyumba irauga noguo wega..tondu niwamenya andu ethi matimakagio ni maundu mamwe.ni ndakera ati nonginya nyin aegure first akoruo nikarenda nyina arachirwo. riu tuona wega ni kairitu kau kahe nyina indo kamuire ahe nyina niguo mone blessings. ana akoruo ucuwe niakaheo, akaria indo tondu kuo nokuo igagitwarwo na ningi mwana ti mundu umwe...thengio muno. riu tender ya mbuthu na tuihuri ukuga atia