muri ega nyumba? njiguaga ngigucio ni utamaduni mwena uyu na maendeleo mwena uyu ungi. no uria muthuri aahikagia atumia aingi nyonaga taari wega tondu togukorwo no njira iyo mutumia ta nii ingiona muthuri. guka aari na atumia atatu na ciana ciothe ni citeithanagia muno. ona kirikaniro
gikuru nogwo kwari. thengiu

Mutugo wa atumia aingi Gikuyu-ini wari wa bata muno hari gutheremia ruriri. Niundu hindi ya tene nikwari na itumi nyingi cia andu gukua na makiria muno ciana. Nikio muthuri endaga ciana na atumia aingi nigetha amwe makua ara angi magatiguo. Ningi makarima ithaka.

Mahinda maya turi uhoro uyu ni muritu muno tondu andu itumi icio ndagweta hau kabere nicianiniruo ni maendeleo.

Mahinda maya arume a gikuyu marakoruo na kanyumba kanini nahau kando tondu matirenda full commitment niundu wa mahuthiro kuingiha (magatuika double).

Thiku turi ona thingira ndutuire,andu riu mundu ekwamba kuriha bithi kana gwaka thingira na nyumba ya muhiki.

WAMWARI niki giatuma uge njira ya athuri kuhikia atumia aingi noyo atumia tawe magiona muthuri. Tua mata macio! Onawe no uhike na ukoruo wi mutumia wa mbere tiga kwihota ana utahotetuo.

Karibu guku nyumba ino na niwega nikuiyaria wahota okuona waigego riaku guku.

He muthuri witaguo Muhuthia na riria njiriga gwake ndonire tari man solo

ni wega Mathenge ni macokio na mawoni maku mena utari muingi. hihi wakwa ari njira. no maundu ma tene nimarathii macokete: ta kuhoya ngai wa kirinyaga na kamweretho.
nyeki ni nduru mukira uria ungi.

He muthuri witaguo Muhuthia na riria njiriga gwake ndonire tari man solo
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We Ayanu Nikii gigutuma unjite Man solo Atumia akwa mari angi uguo urenda guhe umwe?....

Personally I am not only a supporter but also and advocate of polygamy. I do not see why a noble pracrice such as this should be frowned at. Christianity does not condem it (as far as i know) The Europeans tried to export their culture as alongside religion, if you can afford a second wife go right ahead and get one.

The number of wives is an indicator of wealth (and virility?)if there is one tradition i would love to practice it is this one. Also i think every man should build (or otherwise get) their own Thingira.
The daily sharing of bed is sort of an intrusion on personal space and also a limitiation of the horizons available for exploration.

Riu andu ta Mathenge maremiruo ni guaka thingira nio maturaga maigite atumia guku Nairobi me mistress. Ucio ni mutugo muru akoruo mundu numwega hikia na akoruo timwega tigana nake.

Warimwari
Athuri thikuturi matironeka orouguo, nonginya wike marketing na networking yaku ikoruo iri njega. Utuike mundu wa kanitha ugathiyaga guataniro, mohiki na kundu kungi kiria andu maracemania. Men are the best where introductions to fellow men are concerned so get in the company of boys for example being Arsenal damu

thanks Muhuthia for your advice. i agree with Muhuthia that muthungu introduced the hypocrisy of having one wife and infinite number of encounters. by the way a 2nd wife doesn't always have to be a taker but can contribute to the family. this would solve the problem stated by Mathenge about"double expenses" cos some women are very resourceful. this gives her respect in the community rather than remaining in the shadows as mistress.

muthungu told us to throw away our "urogi" but kept his.

Polygamy is the excuse of patriachal domination and utopian social harmony. Wanaume hamuwezi kutosheleza mke mmoja, wengi mtawawezaje. Nanyi wanawake mbona kukubalui pande la mwanamume?

Ngai aheire Gikuyu atumia aigana?

Africa is generally patrichal society with or without polygamy. Same as the west (if family lines are anything to go by) I fail to understand how polygamy can contribute to domination. From my stand point man and wife complement (not compete with) each other as by nature they are suited for diffrent things. therefore a man can be complimented by one,two or even three wives.

Wanaume wale hawawezi kutoshelesha bibi hawafai kuoa kabisa, na kama bibi anapata bwanaye ni kipande, basi talaka.
How come God creates more Men than women and mortalty rate for men is higher. I do not suppose God wanted some ladies no to enjoy matrimony. It is your duty as co creator with God to take extra wives if you are so endowed

Muhuthia,
While I agree that a man and a woman need not compete but rather to complement each other, I would like to ask you...Could we also say that a woman can be complemented by 2, 3 or 4 husbands? And talking of competition and complementing, what can you say of gay and lesbian relationships? And do not tell me that it is unnatural because it is not.

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what can you say of gay and lesbian relationships? And do not tell me that it is unnatural because it is not.
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This is probably the only topic I happen to agree with Mugabe!

Ayanu,
Ati atia?
Can you blame someone for being who they were born to be?

For a habit to be considered natural trait don't it need to be observed in more than one species? For instance mammals conceive;reptiles lay eggs.......A lifestyle choice is NOT a natural biological or better genetic trait!
Nitwarega! Nindarega marohia nda magiturehera mitugo ya nyakeru!
IT IS EXTREMELY UNNATURAL CONDEMNED IN ALL RELIGIOUS EDICTS ON EARTH!

Oh !the practice abounds in the animal kingdom. A quick google search will reveal amazing cases. In fact, there have been academic studies conducted on teh subject. And how can we use religion to justify ostracizing LBGT when many religious leaders are closet gays?

Fact is that homosexuality is not the norm but natural exceptions.

when we are bothered so much by what others do in their bedrooms says more about us than them. what bothers me is when a straight anti-gay guy asks his woman to do the same "gay" acts with her. why is it ok for him to do her in the a** but not for the gay guy to do the same?

Warimwari,
I aint bothered by what they chose to do with themselves;what I don't like is,this issue being thrust to me.I'm just wondering what will be the next cause to fight for, bestiality? Somewhere along,there has to a line drawn in the sand on how much we can take as global society!
As for research we know very well,that you will find the results that you want when you set your agenda from the onset and objectivity is completely absent;that is what it takes!
LIFESTYLE CHOICE IS NOT A NATURAL TRAIT FOR A WHOLE GENUS!

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Originally posted by sajini:
Muhuthia,
While I agree that a man and a woman need not compete but rather to complement each other, I would like to ask you...Could we also say that a woman can be complemented by 2, 3 or 4 husbands? And talking of competition and complementing, what can you say of gay and lesbian relationships? And do not tell me that it is unnatural because it is not.

My Dear Sajini

The mere thought of homosexuals absolutely revolts me. It is simply wrong, un Godly and against the order of nature and humanity.

Having said that it is clear I cannot consider a gay union as a relationship as such probably an accomodation/arragement people with a unnatural sexual orientation.

Honestly I can't figure out how two men can be man and wife that is base I think that is the lowest one can get.

These poeople have contorted minds just like those who abuse children. Decent society should be protected from these people and their devilish influence.

On this issue I strongly agree with Mugabe.

to me matrimony is between man and wife or wives.

Now polyandry

The rule of natural selection are heavily against multiple male mates. Every one genetically programmed to maximise and work towards perpetration of their gene, and will therefore not brook any mixing or interference.

If all men are wiped out but for one we know the world can be quickly repopulated by the single man rather than the other way round.

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